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Showing posts labelled Boundaries.
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A Reddit post about partners who pick fights before deadlines and big days named the sabotage. I am with someone who makes me feel safe and loved now, and the alarm finally quieted.
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A birthday that felt safe for once. Care instead of manipulation, love instead of isolation, and why the right person is not the one who needs you broken.
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Intimate predators and nation-state algorithms use the same levers: intermittent reward, threat cycling, shame, and isolation. The goal is dysregulation, not debate.
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Enemies become allies, characters actually change, and the real plot is the one I reused after bullying, failure, and heartbreak: take the hit, power up, come back sharper.
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When accountability is a threat, guilt gets relocated onto you. How to tell true conscience from projected shame, DARVO, and guilt-tripping.
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Nothing was ever enough. Drama, victimhood, and emotional drain that left self-harm, night terrors, a breakdown, caught fleas mistaken for BPD, and trust that still will not come easy.
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Autism can make me more prone to outbursts that do not match who I am the rest of the time. A flooded state is not a character reveal. Do not weaponise it.